11-24-2005, 10:24 PM #1
Where u meet your significant other?
Well, i've had a never ending saga with this one girl for about 4-5 years now. one of those on/off things by the year, by the month, by the week, right down to daily breakups at times. It rips me apart each and every time but apparently i get made out to be the bad guy all the time... too many details to go thru it's pathetic... sometimes i think long and hard that aright, i'm gonna marry this girl.... othertimes i think about it and it's like omg, i hope i find someone more compatible one day. yea i'm young, PLEASE don't tell me you got all the time in your life, don't start young and lock urself down.... etc.
This thread is not looking for advice really... it's lookin to know WHERE and HOW you came to meet your wife, girlfriend, or partner for life just so i know there's still hope out there for me to find someone I'll be happy with even if i meet her under some weird circumstance.
so let's here the stories, the romantic ones, the comical ones, the mere coincidences, even the ordinary stories.... how'd u come to be with your lover? this should lighten my depression just a little bit i think.
11-24-2005, 10:51 PM #2
I am a delivery guy for a transportation company. So I used to deliver to this one store in a mall here in town on a weekly basis. Well she(significant other) started working there and she would receive the order and check the boxes off with a scanner. She was blonde and cute, but as soon as she bent over to scan a box I was like bada bing bada boooooom! Check out the butt on that thing . Well we started off with small talk, and soon enough her computer was broke, so I offered to come over and fix it. She made dinner and we found out over a dating period that we were actually a descent match. Well, weve been married a year and a half now, we have our ups and downs, but believe me, its alot of work to make a relationship work. Dont beleive the hype about finding the PERFECT woman, because there isn't one, just the same theres no perfect man. Me and my wife depend on our relationship with God to help us through the good and bad!
11-24-2005, 10:56 PM #3
well said, i've come to realize that there's no perfect girl of your dreams and vice versa for them with guys. hopefully we can come damn close tho not a bad way to start off the thread, looks like i need to go back to my delivery boy days.
11-24-2005, 11:29 PM #4
Which significant other?
I've just had a string of boyfriends, none that have really left a long lasting impression on me, with the exception of one or two. One of them is married, the other I'm currently dating. I'm far too young to even consider marriage. It might be in the near future, but I'm not mature enough to get married currently.
11-25-2005, 12:58 AM #5
Well i met my GF at my house actually.
She had come down with a friend of hers, who was my neighbors friend, and i was working. So my neighbor stops in and asks if she can have the key to the house so they can go hang out till i get off work. I say sure and let her have the key. Well about 3 hours later i come home, and head up to the playroom to say hi and meet this new person. I walk in and before i even say hi she says "You have a motorcycle take me for a ride"
That was it. I was done. Spent the entire weekend with her, went on a 100 mile cruise with her on that sunday.
Funny story from there. I went up to bring her to dinner, did that twice, then did not talk to her for 3 months. She called, asked me to come say hi after she got back to college for the year and I did. Hit it off again, forgot how much fun she was/how pretty she was/ all that mushy stuff. We didn't date for a longgggg time. Actually, we each had a relationship between then and memorial day this year when we finally decided to be a couple. She had her BF i had a GF.
Final story is Patience pays off. I chased this girl from Sept. 04-Memorial day. sat back and waitied when she dated some other guy. actually hung out with her and him at her school (it hurt like hell but i did it). Eventually we decided to hook up, and been perfect since then.
Funny thing... i had never been patient with anything before, ever.
11-25-2005, 02:36 AM #6
She dropped her drink on me at a restaurant, she was very embarassed and apologizing over and over, I told her that if that could make her feel better she could let me enjoy her company for lunch...
When she asked for the check I had already taken care of it (during a sneaky fake trip to the restroom) then she looked at me like "WTF", I answered "damn, I guess you still owe me one".
And there we go...
11-25-2005, 08:52 AM #7
Believe it or not I met Carey at the McDonalds where she was working the drive thru window
I was big into working out at the gym before work every morning. This one morning i decided to pull thru the drive thru to get a large OJ. When i saw this sweet little face in the window my heart melted. From the look on her face she felt the same. I knew at that MINUTE that I would marry that girl. This was unusual because i was the BIG PLAYER back then.
Needless to say i stopped in McDonalds every morning after that.... the rest is history
11-25-2005, 08:52 AM #8
OH yea, here is a "big playa" pic of me right before I met Carey
11-25-2005, 09:33 AM #9
What a stud Jerry...
11-25-2005, 09:58 AM #10
I met my wife in the mall. She worked at payless I worked at a cookie shop. She used to come get cookie dough which we weren't allowed to sell, but I didn't care. Her store was moving and they needed help (one day job $$$) so I applied. A couple months later I'm sitting at home when the phone rings. She was cleaning out a drawer and came across my app, saw my number and decided to call. We were both in other relationships which were soon broken off. The rest is history. We have been together for 8 years now, married for 5, with two kids. Yeah I'm young probably should have played teh field more, but life has a way of just happening, no regrets.
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